Decide on the purpose of communication
It makes no sense to go on talking with a Russian girl if you have no idea what you want to get as a result. The tactics of behavior are different in each case and depend on the goals: whether it is gaining experience of communication with the opposite sex or just a way to spend free time (have fun). Or purposeful communication for a further date invitation with the possibility of a relationship. The goal must always be kept in mind and achieved along the shortest path.
Suppose you wanted to ask a Russian lady out on a date but were so carried away by Internet communication that you forgot your goal. As a result, you spent an extra month wasting time on correspondence with a Russian girl, and when, finally, you invited her too late, she already started dating someone else.
Be energetic, emotional in moderation, cheerful, and friendly. A couple of jokes will never hurt. During communication, you should not:
- Whine, cry for life.
- Take offense. Offenses and curiosities in communication should be perceived as a joke.
- Gossip. It is necessary to exclude any “womanish” qualities in communication.
- Talk about the shortcomings of your ex-girlfriends. The girl will immediately realize, “Yeah, he speaks badly about his ex, in the future, he will speak like that about me.”
But you can talk about generous deeds in relation to the ex-girlfriend. Express your opinion, not in a rigid, but in a substantiated, supported by facts and not criticizing manner. Continue reading “Positivity will help you get a girl”